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Monday September 17, 2007

Things that confuse me

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Well, maybe all you fine ladies (or guys for that matter) out there can give me some advice.

The girl I'm seeing has always been after me to be more open about my feelings. She always wants to know what I'm thinking, how I'm feeling about things. So, recently, I've tried to be honest with her with about how I'm feeling. I've tried it three times, and all three times she took my head off. I don't get it. But now I'm not so sure I'll tell her anymore.

Opinions or thoughts?

Posted by BlackNapalm at 1:04 AM - 24 Comments Add a Comment

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Have you explained to her that you want to be more open with your thoughts before you start telling her how you feel? I'm kind of clueless on this one. I think that communications in relationships is a process so maybe your learning how to express what you feel and she's learning to let you... |< << >> >|

by Coloconnect (PM , CC ) on Monday September 17, 2007 @ 1:08 AM

Those are good observations, Colo. I've never been that good of communicator, so I probably have a lot of work to do. Good to see you as always.		\|< << >> >\|
by BlackNapalm (PM , CC ) on Monday September 17, 2007 @ 1:12 AM

Some of us do better in writing...go figure...		\|< << >> >\|
by Coloconnect (PM , CC ) on Monday September 17, 2007 @ 2:15 AM

Some of us do better in writing...go figure...		\|< << >> >\|
by Coloconnect (PM , CC ) on Monday September 17, 2007 @ 2:16 AM

glitter-graphics.com		\|< << >> >\|
by Misty (PM , CC ) on Monday September 17, 2007 @ 10:05 AM

I would rather be alone than hassled like that... BC		\|< << >> >\|
by BigChris (PM , CC ) on Monday September 17, 2007 @ 12:29 PM

Black Napalm: Try speaking in the third person. Sometimes that helps.		\|< << >> >\|
by Whit's Whittlings (PM , CC ) on Monday September 17, 2007 @ 12:33 PM

Colo, Writing my thoughts down might be a good idea. Maybe I'll try that.		\|< << >> >\|
by BlackNapalm (PM , CC ) on Monday September 17, 2007 @ 10:39 PM

Hey Misty! I hope your Monday is going great. I don't drink coffee; actually never had a cup in my life. I guess I'm a tea guy.		\|< << >> >\|
by BlackNapalm (PM , CC ) on Monday September 17, 2007 @ 10:40 PM

BC, Hey man, good to see you again! Believe me, I've thought about bolting. But I'm committed to making it work, or at least trying my hardest to make it work.		\|< << >> >\|
by BlackNapalm (PM , CC ) on Monday September 17, 2007 @ 10:41 PM

Whit, Black Napalam likes that idea. He thinks maybe speaking in third person might help diffuse the situation sometimes.		\|< << >> >\|
by BlackNapalm (PM , CC ) on Monday September 17, 2007 @ 10:42 PM

Just between you and me BNP....I don't either GOT MILK?		\|< << >> >\|
by Misty (PM , CC ) on Tuesday September 18, 2007 @ 8:09 AM

You are a good man BN...and I hope ya'll find a way to reach each other...I come from a family of letter writers...sometimes that's a good way to let someone know what you're feeling! Whatever you decide I'm wishing you the best.		\|< << >> >\|
by Coloconnect (PM , CC ) on Wednesday September 19, 2007 @ 1:24 AM

I'm with Colo. Try writing it down. That way you can freely express what you want to say and she can have time to digest it before commenting....hopefully Good luck		\|< << >> >\|
by Sybil (PM , CC ) on Thursday September 20, 2007 @ 2:05 PM

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by Misty (PM , CC ) on Saturday September 22, 2007 @ 9:40 PM

Well, first of all it would be better, seriously, if when a girl asks you to share what you are thinking, that you don't tell her that you wish she had bigger....................you know.......those things that only girls have big ones of. Also, if you're in public and she wants you to show a little affection...I THINK she means something like, hold her hand....or whisper in her ear.....or look all googly-eyed at her........ I seriously DON'T think she's talking about grabbing her..........you know.....that thing that sticks out the back..........yeah THAT, and accidently calling her Polly, when her name is like, Suzanne, or Theresa, or Hazel (hey, don't laugh, there COULD be a Hazel you're age.....I mean Julia Roberts named her BABY Hazel and she's WAY younger'n YOU! ) Oh, and one last thing...........when she asks you if she looks fat in those jeans..............the correct answer is to take her in your arms, grab that thing that I just told you not to grab in public, kiss her full hard on the mouth, and whisper that she's HOT, baby. Okay, got all a dat, Naapers?		\|< << >> >\|
by prisonerofhope (PM , CC ) on Saturday September 22, 2007 @ 11:08 PM

Well she sounds like a real "keeper"!! NOT!!!!!!!!!!		\|< << >> >\|
by Paige (PM , CC ) on Saturday September 22, 2007 @ 11:11 PM

Just lie...		\|< << >> >\|
by What would Lucy do ? (PM , CC ) on Sunday September 23, 2007 @ 12:05 AM

POH, so in other words, I'm screwed?		\|< << >> >\|
by BlackNapalm (PM , CC ) on Sunday September 23, 2007 @ 1:50 AM

Hi Lucy! Just lie, huh?		\|< << >> >\|
by BlackNapalm (PM , CC ) on Sunday September 23, 2007 @ 1:51 AM

Hey BN, I'm with Paige! I dunno, my relationship is thatta way too. Jeremys always buggin' for me to "talk" more and when I do, I get 50 more questions! I'm more of a show, don't tell kinda girl I think. Cept on my blog. "Feelings, whoa, whoa, whoa, Feelings"..... Be Blessed Mister, PJ		\|< << >> >\|
by PJ (PM , CC ) on Sunday September 23, 2007 @ 2:28 AM

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by What would Lucy do ? (PM , CC ) on Sunday September 23, 2007 @ 2:36 AM

No Naapers............you just wish you were.		\|< << >> >\|
by prisonerofhope (PM , CC ) on Sunday September 23, 2007 @ 6:57 AM

LMAO, PoH. I have a post about NOT being dishonest when someone asks if their...ahem...jeans look good or not in certain physiological spots... But with this girl... I think POH is right... Some people just WANT to be built up, deserving or not... And those folks need you to tell them how sexy their asses are pretty regularly, constantly, sometimes. In fact, perhaps sometimes it takes two or three people saying so--because when you aren't interested in the truth, or working towards and growing into a truth that you would like better; and instead you're just interested in talking the talk without walking the walk, well then, the talk isn't always so believable, eh? I wouldn't cut her loose, hon, if you love her, but you might consider how much compromise between your expectations and hers you are willing to make. I doubt the other guys are indicators that she's not in love with you--but they may certainly be indicators that she's not getting something she needs from either inside herself, or from your relationship with her. If those things can be identified...well...then I always think there is hope. =)		\|< << >> >\|
by stargazegurl (PM , CC ) on Saturday December 29, 2007 @ 4:07 PM

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